I just had a friend write me and suggest that I take her daughter with me on a trip to the other side of the country I’m taking in a couple of months.
WHY THE HELL WOULD I, A MENTALLY ILL PERSON, BE ABLE TO SO SUCH A THING!!!???
It’s like she forgets constantly that I’m sick. I can barely handle myself let alone her kid! And why would you put me in that position!!?? To tell me you want something like that and put me in the position of having to say no or worse yet me being an absolute idiot and feeling guilty and saying yes!
You don’t invite yourself somewhere or your family! She knows how stressful life is for me.
Trips are exhausting mentally and I’m always falling apart during the time. Why would you invite your kid along (without you) on a trip I’ve been planning for over a year? What was she thinking?
She’s supposed to be my best friend. Is it just me or is that really rude and uncaring?